Safety

Your safety comes first. Here is how to report someone, how to block them, what happens after you do, and the habits worth setting up before you meet anyone.

In immediate danger, call 911. You can also reach the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. If you report something inside the app that looks dangerous, we show you the same numbers and flag it to our safety team right away.

Reporting and blocking

Any user can report any other user, and any user can block any other user. Both controls are on every profile and inside every chat. You never have to explain yourself, the other person is never told you did it, and neither one costs anything or requires a match.

Blocking takes effect immediately and both ways: they can’t see you and you can’t see them. Your blocked list is in the app under Safety, and you can unblock from there. Separately, you can turn on contact blocking, which hides everyone in your phone’s address book from you and you from them — your contacts are sent as one-way hashes, never as numbers.

Reporting walks you through a few questions: whether you only talked online or actually met, and what happened. That answer decides what happens next, on our servers, so nothing a reported person does can downgrade a report.

What happens to a report

If you were the one reported and you think we got it wrong, there is an appeal, and a person reads it.

Reporting a catfish, with proof

Catfish photos are too perfect, too few, or all from the same day and the same angle. They’ll dodge a live video, always have an excuse for a bad connection, and push to text off the app fast. Ask for a video message or a quick video call before you meet — thirty seconds of live face settles it.

If they still turn up as a different person, or years off, report them and pick Catfish. You can attach a photo you took when you met. Only our safety team can open it, through a link that expires, and the file is deleted when the report is closed. It is not shown to the person you reported and it never appears anywhere in the app.

Before you meet anyone

These are the tips the app shows. Read them once, set up the phone shortcuts, and go have a good time.

First date? Public, and tell someone

Meet somewhere public for a first date, arrange your own ride there and back, and tell a friend where you’re going and when you expect to be done.

Send their profile to a friend first

Use the Share for safety button on their profile to text a friend who you’re meeting, with their photos and details, before you head out.

Cover your drink, never leave it

Keep a hand over your glass or use a drink cover (a “cup condom”). Don’t leave a drink unattended, and don’t accept one you didn’t watch get poured.

Watch how they treat other people

Controlling or abusive behaviour shows up early. Watch how they talk to staff, whether they push your boundaries, get angry fast, or try to isolate you. Trust that read and leave if something’s off.

Double-tap the back of your phone to call a friend

Set your iPhone so a double-tap on the back instantly calls a trusted friend, so help is one discreet tap away.

iPhone: Settings › Accessibility › Touch › Back Tap › Double Tap → pick a Shortcut that calls your person (and shares your location).

Triple-tap for a loud alarm

Set a triple-tap on the back of your phone to blast a loud alarm. It draws attention fast and signals a bartender or staff that you need help.

iPhone: Settings › Accessibility › Touch › Back Tap › Triple Tap → pick a loud-alarm Shortcut.

Share your live location

Turn on live location with a friend or family member for the night, using Life360, Find My, or your maps app, so someone always knows where you are.

Photograph their car and plate

Before or as you leave, discreetly photograph the person, their car, and the license plate, making sure the colour and make/model are clearly visible. Send it to your friend along with everything else.

What the app does on its side

Reach a person

dev@pappasproductions.com. More on what to include on the support page.